Sunday, May 11, 2014

HOW TO TURN A WOMAN INTO A SMOKIN HEAP OF ECSTASY..

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1. PENIS THRUSTS

After you've pleasured her with hours of foreplay, it's time to punish her with some expert thrusting.

In the missionary position, her legs wide and beckoning, keep your concentration and thrust as follows:-

9 shallow 1 deep
8 shallow 2 deep 
7 shallow 3 deep
etc until 1 shallow 9 deep
and then reverse.
9 deep 1 shallow
8 deep 2 shallow etc.

Great for prolonged ecstasy and massages nearly all the erogenous zones of the penis and vagina.


2. EXPERT FOREPLAY

Stretch the skin on the pubic bone and just above the clitoris toward the navel whilst stimulating the
clit and labia with a well moistened finger or tongue. 
Alternate the stretch with pressing the skin in the opposite direction toward the clit once in a while.
Satisfaction guaranteed.



3. ON THE BRINK

As she approaches orgasm ease off a little and tease. 
Keep the stimulation to a level where her arousal is high but not towards the point of no return.
Conversely don't ease off to the point where arousal is ebbing or she is yawning. 
Repeat this as many times as you dare and she'll be screaming for release!
And what a release.



4. PENIS MASSAGE

Best done if at least semi erect.

Have partner lie down on stomach with eyes closed or blindfolded.
Gently rub cock back and forth across the back of the knee.
Grabbing ankle gently bring up towards knee creating crease and thrust in the crease. Do both legs. Massage bottom of the feet, calves and backs of thighs up to crease.

Next do same with the insides of elbows, then palms, forearms, upper arms and armpits.
Progress to nape of neck, collarbone, up and down spine etc.

Ask your partner to flip over and gently caress her forehead, eyebrows, eyes , nose , ears and chin with your cock.
Rub yor cock featherlight across her lips..........

From here on is left to your own interpretation though if you wish to continue the tease, nipples and breasts, abdomen , hips and beyond are all fantastic!





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Thursday, November 22, 2012

HOW TO MAKE A MAN GO FROM HARDLY WOKEN TO FULLY SMOKIN..

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Smokin' Sex Tips for Boys, back in February, was our most popular post so we thought it was about time the girls got in to it too. With Christmas around the corner, warm summer breezes to ignite latent desires and new lovers on the horizon, it's time to apply some expert tips that will leave your man in a smokin' heap of snoring ecstasy. 

1. Fab Fellatio
 
For the most sublime head, lift the penis and lightly and tenderly kiss from bottom to top. With featherlight flicks, run your tongue along the underside of the shaft in a straight line from bottom to top. Swirl your tongue around the head paying special attention to the frenulum. Intersperse with cool blowing and warm sucking over the shaft and head. Use your hand as well as your mouth to glide from base to tip. Look into your lover's eyes and show enthusiasm and love. Don't be afraid to use your saliva for lots of lovely lubrication. Hold the penis firmly at the base to keep him hot and hard.


2. Foreplay of the Mind


Anticipation is a beautiful thing. Massage his crotch whenever you have the chance, send him suggestive texts throughout the day, bare a bit of leg (and for an extra thrill, wear suspenders and stockings), lick your ice-cream suggestively and give him your most seductive, carnal glances. Whatever you do, make sure he knows what delicious delight he has waiting for him. A man adores to know that you're having dirty dreams of him and when he finally throws you on the bed to ravish you, the wait will have made it so much more worth it.



3. On the Brink

One of the most erogenous zones on the body is the perineum and anal area. When delighting him with your sublime oral technique, try pressing the pad of your finger around the perineum (the area between the balls and anus) using reasonable pressure. When he's good and aroused, use a lubricated finger to lightly massage around the anus. If he's going to come, insert your finger gently for wild and intense orgasm.




4. Heavenly Hand Work


Hand jobs are soooo much more satisfying when you have a well lubricated hand. Make sure you have some nice massage oil and warm it up a little to begin your massage. Release some tension from his back, shoulders and buttocks before starting on his penis. Don't be sparing with the oil and use good, firm pressure as well as feather light touch and your fingernails to ignite him. Cold pressed oils are excellent for massage and silicone lubricants are positively transformational.




5. Enthusiasm
 
You cannot underestimate the role of body confidence and enthusiasm. We hear it a lot because it cannot be over-stated. Really try to forget your body hang ups and engage in sex with as much enthusiasm as you can muster. Show him that you are loving every stroke, lick and thrust. Whether you are giving head, providing a masterful hand job or masturbating in front of him, look in to his eyes, make noise and GET INTO IT! It's highly contagious for both partners and he'll feel like the master of the universe.



6. Just For You Baby

Men don't talk about it much, but the pressure to perform can be deflating. A hard, firm, performing penis can be difficult to maintain again and again. Every once in a while, let your man know that you are going to love and pleasure him with no reciprocation. Lie him down, massage, stroke, lick, suck and fuck him if you want to but make sure he understands that there is no pressure to perform. Permission to relax and be pleasured is a wonderful gift. Erection and climax are optional.




..Then wish him a Very Merry Christmas!





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Thursday, January 5, 2012

10 Sexy Things To Do In The Holidays

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 Hello everyone!

I hope you're having a wonderful break, you're relaxed, you're happy and ready for new adventures.
If you have a lover but you're too full, lazy or hot to think up some erotic hanky panky for yourselves, feel free to take a few suggestions from me.
Some are free and others require a few $$$.
There's sure to be more than one you'll love!


1. Have a good old outdoor roll in the hay - wear appropriate clothing (floaty skirts, stretchy underwear) and be daring.


2. Dress up - buy yourself a naughty costume or some very sexy bedroom attire. No-one can dress up for your man but you, so give him the gift of your sexy as hell bod.


3. Leave a  note, but make it erotically suggestive. Alternatively, go all out and be raunchy and explicit.  Either way, it will have you thinking about one another all day. Slip it in to each other’s car, lunchbox, bag, or leave it on the pillow.
 
4. Go parking - ride around together (her in thigh high fishnets and killer heels, he in stretchy shorts and t-shirt) and look for a place to make out. Make sure you go all the way!


5. Cook up a fantasy dinner - buy yourself a sexy maid outfit and start planning and writing a menu. For each course you will have an accompanying action - (eg. starter - oysters and hand job under the table, main - pasta matriciana and fellatio over the chair, dessert - sticky date pudding and doggy style sex over the couch). Cook, serve and follow through in your 'do me' outfit. 
 

6. If you're not one to trim the bush, give yourself a neat, barely there shave. A change can work wonders.


7. Set the scene with some bondage gear - blindfold, tie-ups and spanker - and take turns being Master and Slave. Do everything the other orders you to.

  

8. If you haven’t tried the We-Vibe 11, do yourself a favour and buy it. Cheaper than a night out and loads more fun.




9. Settle yourselves into bed with an erotic book of short stories and read to one another each night. Intellectual foreplay of the best kind.


10. Building the anticipation makes for the sweetest, most intense sex of all. Send naughty messages and pictures to each other when you’re apart to intensify your mutual hunger.


Making sure that your lover knows your thinking about them and that the thought of them is making you hotter than beach sand in summer, is a sure way to keep the passion burning bright.
Happy holidays! 
(All pictures courtesy of Les Toil)

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