Sunday, September 11, 2011

Notes from 'How To Thrill A Man Part 2'

If you missed Passionfruit’s How To Thrill A Man Part 2, hosted by Layla on Saturday night, you missed the biggest OMFG event we’ve hosted to date.

As this was the first of it’s kind offered to the public, we were all (attendees and participants) just a little apprehensive to begin with. After all, Layla was to perform a 60 minute lingam massage for Andrew - a brave, albeit very willing, lovely male model.

Our apprehensions were quickly laid to rest however, once Layla began to introduce us to the pleasures and benefits of tantric love. If you think you can learn these techniques from a book, I have to say you are misguided. The reason Layla and I formulated this type of workshop is precisely because of this fact. Nothing beats being shown directly the techniques involved in authentic lingam massage.

Firstly, the workshop began with the two lovers setting aside a sacred space in which to say ‘hello’ and acknowledge that a time for lovemaking is being set aside. This is the ‘Namaste’ ritual and helps to open our hearts to each other and vocalise what we might want to give and receive during the session. In this case, Layla expressed her desire to provide Andrew with a one hour lingam massage - of which Andrew was more than happy to oblige!

With Andrew comfortably on his back on the massage table, Layla began. In order to shake out the tensions of the day, a quick massage began on the left foot and followed firmly up the leg, side of the torso, over the left shoulder and down the arm to the hand. This was repeated a couple of times on each side. A lovely firm pull of the hair and deeply relaxing rub of the neck followed. The legs are gently prised apart and the inner thigh caressed and hair across the pelvis fondled.

Then the massage oil, a crucial ingredient to the entire session, was introduced. The aim is to not go straight to the jugular, but to sensitise, tease, seduce and awaken. The oil is poured between the folds of each thigh and the kneading of the lingam begins.

For the rest of the hour, Layla instructed us on the masterful techniques involved. Andrew was spared nothing. His penis, testes and anus were all bestowed with the most exotic, eye popping, devotional massage you are ever likely to be privileged to witness. We were all left breathless, inspired and empowered.

Thank you to Layla, Andrew and all of the participants for a wonderfully positive and educational experience. We are now discussing the possibility of running these workshops on a more regular basis. Currently, we only have one more available in May next year, but clearly, this is a beautiful way to learn the art of giving. I encourage all women to attend. You might be a bit apprehensive at first, but you won’t be sorry. Needless to say, the one you bestow your pleasure upon, won’t be sorry either.

Here’s some participant feedback.

Hi Michelle,
Yeah look it was fantastic, definitely good to get hand on (pardon the pun) tips!!
Thanks

Dear Michelle,
I appreciate so much the workshop you hosted on Saturday night. It was done with so much sensitivity and just felt so 'normal'!!! I don't know how you managed it, but so many of my own barriers were completely shattered and I just feel like a richer, more honest and generous lover.

I can truthfully say that I have never before felt that my $99.00 was so well spent. What I learned will stay with me forever. When's the next one?

Hi Michelle,
Thank-you for the workshop hosted on Saturday evening! I found it informative, liberating and enjoyable and believe more people should have access to such ways of loving. You have a beautiful store & good luck with future events! X

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